Friday, December 9, 2011

How Dad Can Help Her daughter Anorexia

    Fathers who take such actions and that people can be one of the most difficult part of dealing with your daughter's eating disorder. It feels like there's nothing you can do, and little is under your control. You can not force the food into your child's throat, or can you, you wonder?
    How Dad Can Help Her daughter Anorexia
    So what can you do? It will not seem like much, but it is the place to start.



    1) When you come home from work that you enter the battle zone. His wife and son are in a deadlock in the kitchen because you darling girl wanted to know how much fat in each of the materials. He has drawn a line in the sand with what will and will not eat. Your wife is on the verge of either tears or explosion, and you see your daughter as if daring you to take your wife's side. You have a choice to make; try to help or retreat.

    2) What do you do? You wear the face of the quietest and the most fun you can muster, take your wife with daughter's hand and tells you to go listen to his iPod for a while. You made a conscious decision to not go into battle and you go take care of your wife. Yes? What about my sick daughter will not eat? We'll get him in a minute.

    3) See, this is the secret. You have to go home to prepare for what you know is coming and you put on your armor. You have your battle plan and that is to divide and conquer. You take care of your wife, so she could finish getting ready for dinner. And as in the wrestling tag team, you've just marked.

    4) Give yourself a little time after caring for your wife, then, go find your daughter and sit with him. If he does not take the iPod earphones out of one ear, just sit with him. He will eventually ask you what you want, if for no other reason than to get rid of you. Then just ask about that day. He will vent about how the mother has been on the case to eat all day, how he ate a lot and you can not make him eat more and so on. But he spoke and that's the goal.

    5) All you have to do is listen and sit with him while he was on the food crisis and everything under the sun. You start talking about your day, how do you swear the man in the cubicle next to you to spend all day picking his nose, or you share something more weak and stupid until finally he laughed. It does not really matter what you say, as long as you are with him. You get the picture, whatever it takes to build a bridge. If all you get is silence, so be it. Be with him.

    6) All of a sudden dinner ready and you go sit at the table like you always do. When he came in and sat down, be it reluctantly, you add more mortar to bridge it and you build up again. You helped divert attention to the story you are stupid or encourage you to notify them. Little by little, day by day, you build bridges and strengthen it by being with him, and show him you're not going away. This is the first thing you can do.
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